Most people don’t have a dating problem.
They have a selection problem.
Date with confidence, certainty and discernment— before you fully invest your heart.
“How did I miss that?”
"That was a waste of time, energy and money."
"Why do I always attract the same kind of person?"
"Why don't I feel fulfilled with this person?"
"I'm exhausted and don't want to start over."
"There's chemistry but lacks that fulfilling feeling."
The Problem
No List At All
Hoping it works out. It’s risky and even dangerous. This is where pure chemistry runs the show.
The Vague List
Writing likes to travel, great communicator, sense of humor, etc. It’s not enough and gets you in trouble.
The 50+ Qualities List
Puts you in the “too picky” category. It can keep you single for a very long time — if not forever.
I’ve spent over 12 years developing a proven method that gives you the confidence to know who to date, who to pass on, and what truly matters to you in a lasting relationship.
Don’t ever say, “I knew better,” again.
The good news
The good news? Once you change how you choose who you date, things shift quickly.
You don’t have to keep starting over. That’s exhausting.
I’ll show exactly how to meet quality people and a relationship that gives you enough of what you need to stay and build the love you want.
Client Success Stories
“I was in a really low place. I had just had my heart broken by yet another “wrong” guy for me. Suzanne helped me focus on self-love first and then create a Fulfillment List of exactly what I wanted in a man. By April, I pulled it out — my friend was EVERYTHING on that list and more.”
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Kim
“The Fulfillment List has proven invaluable — I recently met someone who matches over 95% of my list. We reviewed it together and are both delightfully amazed by how aligned we are in so many key areas. Truly next level.”
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Don
“I was a widow after 24 years of marriage. Suzanne helped me zero in on what I wanted in a relationship — and helped me understand how men think. Today, I am in a relationship that is very fulfilling. You helped me get to the joy I am experiencing today.”
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Shelley
“Suzanne helped me articulate my needs, wants, and a new vision in concrete ways. I put my all into it and experienced key breakthroughs. Best of all — I met a great guy at her singles mixer. He’s the most healthy, mature man I’ve ever been with. It’s a joy.”
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Megan
The Solution:
Specific & Thorough
Later in life, it takes more to feel fulfilled with someone. 14 important areas of life and a paragraph for each.
I do the typing during this exercise and you can focus on thinking and speaking. Two of the areas most people never even consider.
Define What You Do Want
Most people over 40 know what they don’t want after some bad experiences but they aren’t good at articulating what they do want.
I help you with clarity, specificity, and insights you have not even considered.
Evaluation & Rating System
Learn how to evaluate your dates, choose the right people for you, and quickly recognize your ideal healthy relationship.
You may even go on fewer dates with this method — because you’ll make better decisions.
Chemistry & Attraction
Chemistry is deceiving. They both matter, however, a lot of other things matter too.
Learn how to evaluate the whole person so chemistry and a couple of appealing qualities don’t cloud your judgment and sway your decisions.
Realistic & Unrealistic Standard
I’ll explain the unrealistic standard that keeps you stuck and the realistic standard that leads to a truly fulfilling relationship.
You’ll also learn how to stop wavering, trust the numbers, and choose with confidence.
Where To Meet Quality People
The question everyone asks. It becomes obvious after creating your thorough list. You will see exactly where to go to meet quality people for you.
No more wasted time in the wrong environments.
You’ll also learn how to ask different questions to figure out quicker if this is someone to keep going with.
The Result
14
Areas of life we map together — including the two most people miss.
80%
Realistic alignment target because you are now asking for more of what actually fulfills you. Not 100% — that keeps you stuck.
12+
Years refining this method with happy clients into real, lasting relationships.
The Fulfillment List Method includes
Together, we’ll create your personalized Fulfillment List and give you the proven framework. You’ll date and choose with more clarity, less stress, and greater trust in yourself.
Format
Private Zoom Call
Length
90 Minutes
Your Investment
$195